Comments on: I miss my husband - Reintegration http://gentlewhisper.com/blog/2008/02/11/i-miss-my-husband-reintegration/ Life is random, so is my blog. Fri, 21 Nov 2008 06:25:55 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Laura http://gentlewhisper.com/blog/2008/02/11/i-miss-my-husband-reintegration/#comment-36343 Laura Sat, 23 Feb 2008 22:57:44 +0000 http://gentlewhisper.com/blog/2008/02/11/i-miss-my-husband-reintegration/#comment-36343 Can't wait to hear all God has done/is doing in both your lives. I am honored to be your friend and wish you and Joel and the kids the best! Love you! Laura Can’t wait to hear all God has done/is doing in both your lives. I am honored to be your friend and wish you and Joel and the kids the best!
Love you!
Laura

]]> By: Letty http://gentlewhisper.com/blog/2008/02/11/i-miss-my-husband-reintegration/#comment-36059 Letty Wed, 13 Feb 2008 04:14:38 +0000 http://gentlewhisper.com/blog/2008/02/11/i-miss-my-husband-reintegration/#comment-36059 I am so excited for you to have your man back- but I will be praying for you two as well! It is so good that your family will be together again! I am so excited for you to have your man back- but I will be praying for you two as well! It is so good that your family will be together again!

]]> By: Old Woman Marine http://gentlewhisper.com/blog/2008/02/11/i-miss-my-husband-reintegration/#comment-36042 Old Woman Marine Tue, 12 Feb 2008 03:30:54 +0000 http://gentlewhisper.com/blog/2008/02/11/i-miss-my-husband-reintegration/#comment-36042 In a few days our youngest child will marry and we shall be alone in our home once more. We haven't been alone in our home for 26 years. We are excited, amused, terrified, and GRATEFUL for all that is ahead. We are two veterans who salute you both. Semper Fi In a few days our youngest child will marry and we shall be alone in our home once more. We haven’t been alone in our home for 26 years. We are excited, amused, terrified, and GRATEFUL for all that is ahead.

We are two veterans who salute you both.

Semper Fi

]]> By: Donna http://gentlewhisper.com/blog/2008/02/11/i-miss-my-husband-reintegration/#comment-36038 Donna Tue, 12 Feb 2008 00:54:48 +0000 http://gentlewhisper.com/blog/2008/02/11/i-miss-my-husband-reintegration/#comment-36038 Hi, Amy: I never, ever post on this site, but I check on you everyday and am so glad Joel is on his way home. In 20 years of marriage, my husband and I have had the most difficulties when we grew at different paces. It is not impossible. It just requires re-education, patience, and (hardest of all) not regressing. Regression just causes resentment. Regression is a lack of gratitude for the growth you've been blessed with. You will both remember what you loved in one another. You will both be happy -- and not so happy -- about what is new and different. You will find common ground, and you will learn to admire the slightly different person sitting across you at breakfast. True love is all those things Paul says it is. Enjoy. Hi, Amy:

I never, ever post on this site, but I check on you everyday and am so glad Joel is on his way home.

In 20 years of marriage, my husband and I have had the most difficulties when we grew at different paces. It is not impossible. It just requires re-education, patience, and (hardest of all) not regressing. Regression just causes resentment. Regression is a lack of gratitude for the growth you’ve been blessed with.

You will both remember what you loved in one another. You will both be happy — and not so happy — about what is new and different. You will find common ground, and you will learn to admire the slightly different person sitting across you at breakfast. True love is all those things Paul says it is.

Enjoy.

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